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Definition
The capacity to forgo an immediately available reward in anticipation of a larger or better reward available later. Walter Mischel's Stanford marshmallow experiment (1972) showed that children who could delay gratification at age 4 had significantly better outcomes in adolescence and adulthood - higher SAT scores, better social functioning, lower substance use. Subsequent research has complicated the picture (the correlation partly reflects socioeconomic background) but the capacity itself remains a crucial component of self-regulation.
When it shows up
Before attempting any challenging task; when choosing whether to try something difficult.
Failure mode
Self-fulfilling failure prophecies. Low self-efficacy producing avoidance that prevents the experience needed to build efficacy. The spiral of avoiding challenges and therefore never improving.
Countermeasure
Build self-efficacy deliberately through small, achievable successes. Ask: "What's the smallest version of this challenge I could succeed at today?" Build up from there.
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Origin
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